What Women Really Want: 7 Things Every Guy Can Do To Be Perfect For Her (Quoted)

1. Honesty – but not too much of it.

A woman doesn’t want a man to lie to her about important matters. She wants to be an important part of his life – the most important part, in fact. She wants to know the things that are going on his life and she wants him to have trust in her. As far as she is concerned, they are one – his life is her life.

She wants him to want to share in his pleasant experiences and memories. She also doesn’t want him to feel that he has to lie, because when that is the case it usually means that he was stepping out of line, making poor choices and mistakes. On the other hand, she doesn’t want the truth in all circumstances. Brutal honesty isn’t wanted.

If she asks, she looks great, she looks beautiful, the fact she gained 15 pounds doesn’t bother you, her new haircut makes her look even cuter. Now that I think about it, the only thing you should really lie is about such shallow matters as appearances. We all look like sh*t sometimes – but she doesn’t need to hear you say it.

2. Understanding – so that she doesn’t feel the need to have to explain herself.
She wants you to know her – inside and out. Why? Because only then will you love her for her. We all sometimes need confirmation that we’re worth loving. The real us – not the people others perceive us to be. We may not all need such a confirmation of our value, but we all want it. But it’s more than just that.

Having someone understand you is having someone completely know you for the person that you really are. There’s no confusion, there’s no misunderstanding or misconception. They know you for you and because they know you for the person you really are, you, in a sense, exist outside of yourself. As long as they live on, so do you.

3. Caring – she needs to know she matters to you.

To be cared for means not to be alone in this life. Most people are forced to care for themselves and the truth is that it’s a lot more difficult than people let on. As human beings, we aren’t always in the right mindset to care for ourselves. To top it off, that’s usually exactly when we need the most caring – when we aren’t mentally or physically capable of doing it ourselves.

She wants you to be there for her when she needs someone, to be there to share her burden. I know it sounds ridiculous, but she wants you to make her life a little easier. Craziness – I know. On the upside, she’ll be there for you when no one else will. Fair enough tradeoff I think.

4. Strength – both mental and physical.

No woman wants a physical weakling – it’s against her nature. That doesn’t mean she won’t settle for slightly less than Herculean, but you’re a man dammit. She wants to feel that when she’s in your presence. She wants you to be intelligent and to practice self-control simply because you can.

We’re all still animals and women will always be attracted to the stronger men. She wants you to be strong not for the sake of being strong – she wants you to be strong for her. It brings her pleasure, makes her feel safe and turns her on. Do you honestly need more convincing?

5. Compassion – shows her you’re capable of loving.

A woman doesn’t only want a man to have love only for her, but a love for life, for living things. She wants a kind man, a man whom others will look up to, appreciate and admire. She wants a good man.

She doesn’t see being good and compassionate as a weakness. And that’s because it’s not. I know lots of men are taught that to be strong you have to be hateful, spiteful and malicious. That’s very unfortunate, but it’s simply the world we live in. She doesn’t need that. You don’t need that either. No one does.

6. Security – financial and literal.

You don’t need to be a millionaire. Well, for some women, you very well may need to be, but hopefully you’ll only end up with one who admires the traits required for turning oneself into a millionaire and not the money alone. Generally speaking, the right woman will love you for you, but she does need you to make her feel secure.

She wants to feel that you will protect her from physical harm. She wants to know that you’ll keep her safe, healthy and comfortable. Does she need you to keep her safe? To bring home the bread? No. But she’d like you to be capable of it – even if her salary is bigger than yours. She’ll have your back too so you can rest easier as well.

7. Blind Loyalty – she wants to be the only woman he has eyes for.

We all have big egos – men and women alike. We want to feel special. We want to feel unique and better than the rest. We’re competitive by nature and there is no getting around it. Women want a man who sees the world in her. Her and only her.

She knows she’s not the most beautiful or smartest woman in the world, but she doesn’t need to be – she’s not delusional. She just wants you to think – know – that she’s the most beautiful, best woman in the world for you.

She needs you to think she is the best thing that ever happened to you. She wants to be the best and she wants a man who will allot her that title.

When we mature in the relationship

Being in a relationship usually changes the person, the way they perceive life, the way they perceive others, even sometimes the way they perceive their partners. But I feel that it is equally important for a person in relationship to be aware of the changes of the relationship itself. It is very important in my opinion to see the stages of the relationship, how it grows, which way it is growing into. I was caught in a situation couple of days ago,  without realising my relationship has grown to a matured stage, i was busy acting immaturedly over a pic my partner took with his friends (gals n boys). The issue hit the climax only when my partner forced it our of me (i didn say a word to him till he actually made me) to talk about the issue. He was talking n talking non-stop regarding the relationship, how important is it to have this trust, to have a consistency and to have a strong base. Thats when i realise, my God, the relationship has grown, both of us has grown, i shud really stop the drama n start embracing the grown up relationship. Easier said than done, I know but its super duper crucial. So what would be the "matured relationship"? Well, in my point of view, few key words would be, not being too clingy, being independent, trust in a new level and understanding in an extreme level, oh and one more would be, talking abt issues rather than shouting about issues :) In that case im a lucky gal to have found a partner who embraces the maturity of relationship so well. :)

crazy-egoistic-stubborn-funny-absolutely an awesome friend :)

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My personal fav! :)

Told ya this year is proving to be a good one..well damn true it is, i found a crazy, egoisitic to d max, soft hearted, like to scold me, funny and a friend like no other. Shashi, amazing friend of mine, whom laugh and make me laugh like crazy wen vr togedr. So shashi, this post is for u, i hate u wen u make me sad n frustrated, and ur mmg amazing wen u make me laugh like no others did :)

Rambling after a year ;)

What a year it has been..decisions changed, life changed, life path changed..and a year later im happy :)..working, studying, met awesome ppl, probably in love and here i am blogging :)..well im gonna be a regular after this..cheers! :) first major topic cuming up real soon!
Heres a pictorial of past year :

Tennis (women) - MARIA SHARAPOVA

I was sixteen yrs old and she was 17..i was sitting in front of d tv in my hse living room while doing my assignment and suddenly my dad on the sports channel where Wimbledon Ladies Singles FInals were going on..and the players, World Number 1 Serene Williams and an unknown 17 yr old Maria Sharapova.. i was amazed the way she played..her determination adn her confident reli made me hope for her victory so badly on taht day..and she WON! i realised that if we want it, with hardwork and alot of determination we can DO IT!

Sharapova was born in 1987 to Yury and Yelena, ethnic Russians, in the town of Nyagan' in Siberia, Russia. Her parents moved from Gomel, Belarus after the Chernobyl nuclear accident in 1986 affected the region.[7] When Sharapova was two, the family moved to Sochi where her father befriended Aleksandr Kafelnikov, whose son Yevgeny would go on to win two Grand Slam singles titles and became Russia's first ever World No. 1 tennis player. Aleksandr gave Sharapova her first tennis racket at the age of four, where upon she began practicing regularly with her father in a local park.[8] She took her first tennis lessons with veteran Russian coach Yuri Yutkin, who was instantly impressed when he first saw her play, noting her "exceptional hand-eye co-ordination."[9]
At the age of seven, Sharapova attended a tennis clinic in Moscow run by Martina Navrátilová, who recommended professional training at the Nick Bollettieri Tennis Academy in Florida, which had previously trained players such as Andre Agassi, Monica Seles and Anna Kournikova.[8] With money tight, Yuri was forced to borrow the sum that would allow him and his daughter, neither of whom could speak English, to travel to America, which they finally did in 1994.[9] Visa restrictions prevented Sharapova's mother from joining them for two years.[7] Arriving in Florida with just $700 to his name,[9] Sharapova's father took various low-paying jobs, including dish-washing, to fund her lessons until she was old enough to be admitted to the academy. In 1995, she was signed by IMG, who agreed to pay the annual tuition fee of $35,000 for Sharapova to stay at the academy, allowing her to finally enroll at the age of 9.[8]
Sharapova currently not only an athelete, she is also a model and charityperson :)

man utd to be champions :D

Manchester United need only one point from their remaining matches to be crowned EPL champions for the 19th time which will make them the best n most winners of all time surpassing Liverpool's record of 18times..yeay!! so chelsea, looks like roman going to make more player in and out, liverpool who la created you'll never walk alone for u ppl, its lika jinx, u guya have been walking alone without trophy all along :P:P and arsenal, d pitiest of all..u guys are actually good but not consistent, so lotsa love to arsene wenger :D n of coz, to man city,muahaha, dream on :P:P its devils nite and GLORY GLORY MANCHESTER UNITED..wohoooo..