Frens we are...

He is a fren,he definitely is..and im his fren,i definitely am..but why there is alot of confusion when a guy and a girl become frens..well its normal for people involved in it to be confused bit,as in the guy and gal involved coz they are directly involved in it,and they go through it and evrything..but why is it people outside,third party people are so much confused..their major confusion is are they real frens??or are they lovers pretending to be frens?..theres even studies carried out regarding this situation and studies actually say that,both parties are right and wrong..it says 1 out of 4 frens(a guy and a gal) are actually in love with each other but just simply refuse to admit it and hide themselves behind the mask of frenship. this is posible,im not saying it is not but very thin chance..it is normal for a gal to be very very close with her guy fren and vice versa..because he is ur best fren!!duh!..but the closeness is special compared to the closeness felt between a gal bestfren..and trust me most gals would definitely agree with me..but why is dat so,this is because,btwn a gal n gal theres alwes hidde jealosy and also competition..there would be tiny tiny unhapiness nad more..but that doesnt mean the frenship is not pure it just makes the frenship different with the one between a guy and a gal...wen ur frens with a guy,and wen ur bestfrens with a guy u will feel like ur the luckiest gal on earth..because of the care u get from them is just unlimited..more than ur boyfriend!lolx..but that is the truth..guys love their bestgalfrens..=)..i noe dat pretty well as im one of the luckiest gal as well...but im a little bit worried at how the world would look at us because we're really close..it even caused some distance,bitterness and everything..then i realised that if i were to worry abt the wolrd im going to lose a fren, who like him everyone should have in this world..so no worries bout outside world just the worry abt us..lol..sometimes i do ask myself am i behaving like a fren or more than that even without me knowing..but one will realise it doesnt mater as both are love,unconditional love..=)