Being in a relationship usually changes the person, the way they perceive life, the way they perceive others, even sometimes the way they perceive their partners. But I feel that it is equally important for a person in relationship to be aware of the changes of the relationship itself. It is very important in my opinion to see the stages of the relationship, how it grows, which way it is growing into. I was caught in a situation couple of days ago, without realising my relationship has grown to a matured stage, i was busy acting immaturedly over a pic my partner took with his friends (gals n boys). The issue hit the climax only when my partner forced it our of me (i didn say a word to him till he actually made me) to talk about the issue. He was talking n talking non-stop regarding the relationship, how important is it to have this trust, to have a consistency and to have a strong base. Thats when i realise, my God, the relationship has grown, both of us has grown, i shud really stop the drama n start embracing the grown up relationship. Easier said than done, I know but its super duper crucial. So what would be the "matured relationship"? Well, in my point of view, few key words would be, not being too clingy, being independent, trust in a new level and understanding in an extreme level, oh and one more would be, talking abt issues rather than shouting about issues :) In that case im a lucky gal to have found a partner who embraces the maturity of relationship so well. :)
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